Questions To Ask

Tell Me the (Whole) Truth Tool Kit

Published 09/05/02

Most people support real sex education in schools, and most parents mistakenly believe that their children are getting the information they need to protect themselves in their school sex education programs. If you don’t know what is being taught in your school district, find out. Ask school officials these questions, and if you get answers you’re unhappy with, take action!

  • Do you provide any sex education?
  • In what grade do students start receiving sex education?
  • Is the information age-appropriate?
  • Do you discuss abstinence from sex? What if any other topics are included?
  • Is basic information about sex, unprotected sex, abstinence, and contraception provided?
  • What specifically is taught about contraception?
  • How do you discuss HIV and AIDS?
  • What information is provided about STDs? Are warning signs and prevention discussed?
  • How do you discuss sexual assault?
  • How are gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people portrayed?
  • Is there any discussion of same-sex sexual activity or sexual orientation?
  • For how long and how often do students receive sex education?
  • Do specially trained teachers or health educators teach the material?
  • Is peer pressure explored?
  • What options are presented related to teen pregnancy?
  • Is sexual orientation a topic?
  • What literature or textbooks are used? Can I take a look at them?
  • What types of media/materials are used in the classroom (prints, films, slides)?
  • Who designs the curriculum?
  • Who approves the curriculum?
  • Where do you refer students who want more information about a particular issue?