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New York


Statewide Relationship Recognition

no Licenses marriages for same-sex couples.
yes Honors marriages of same-sex couples from other jurisdictions
no Relationship recognition for same-sex couples: none.

New York is unusual because it does not allow same-sex couples to marry in the state, or even provide them statewide domestic partnership benefits, but it does respect their marriages entered into outside the state. That has led many same-sex couples to travel to Canada and elsewhere to get married. They have returned home and won respect for their marriages, inside and outside the courtroom, sometimes just by asking. The list of who respects marriages is extensive, from state and local government to employers and insurance companies.

Statewide Employment Protections

yes Private employment protections based on sexual orientation.
no Private employment protections based on gender identity.
yes Public (state) employment protections based on sexual orientation.
- Public (state) employment protections based on gender identity.

See N.Y. CLS Exec. Law 296 (2005).

  • 2003 Sexual Orientation Non-Discrimination Act (S.720/A.1971). Signed by Governer Pataki on 12/17/02.

Statewide Parenting Laws

Who May Adopt An adult unmarried person or an adult husband and his adult wife together may adopt another person. D.R.L. § 110.
Second Parent Adoptions Approved in In reJacob, 86 N.Y.2d 651, 636 N.Y.S.2d 716, 660 N.E.2d 397 (1995)
Notes Joint adoption approved in Matter of Adoption of Carolyn B., N.Y.S.2d, 2004 WL 575028 (N.Y. App. Div., 2004)

Press Releases

Lambda Legal Announces Settlement in Lawsuit on Behalf of Lesbian Homeowners: Fannie Mae Mortgage Policies Change

08/20/10

U.S. Department of Justice Files Brief in Support of Lambda Legal Case Against Upstate New York School District

08/18/10

NY Senate Passes Anti-Bullying and Harassment Bill to Protect Students; Lambda Legal Urges Governor to Sign Bill Into Law

06/23/10

New York High Court Rules in Lambda Legal Case: Vermont Civil Union Establishes Parental Rights of Non-Biological Mother

05/04/10

Lambda Legal: "The LGBT Community Owes Much to Justice Stevens."

04/09/10

New York High Court Hears Argument in Lambda Legal Case to Protect Parent-Child Relationship Between Child and Non-Biological Mother

02/17/10

Lambda Legal Releases Health Care Discrimination Survey Results; More Than Half of LGBT and HIV Positive Respondents Report Discrimination

02/04/10

Lambda Legal: After Sixteen Years of Discrimination, It's Time to End the Policy

02/02/10

Lambda Legal Welcomes Judith Pfenninger: New Chief Financial Officer

01/26/10

Lambda Legal Welcomes Dru Levasseur: New Transgender Rights Attorney

12/22/09

Lambda Legal Applauds Governor Paterson's Executive Order Protecting New York Transgender Public Employees

12/16/09

New York Senate Fails to Pass Marriage Equality Bill: Lambda Legal Says, "This isn't over."

12/02/09

New York High Court Upholds Government Benefits to Married Same-Sex Couples, Exhorts Legislature to Vote on Marriage

11/18/09

Lambda Legal Calls for Action During Transgender Day of Remembrance

11/13/09

Lambda Legal Urges New York Senate to Vote Yes on Marriage Equality

11/09/09

New York High Court Hears Argument in Cases Attacking Government Respect for Out-of-State Marriages of Same-Sex Couples

10/13/09

Federal Court Rejects Howard K. Stern's Gay Defamation Claim

08/12/09

Lambda Legal Statement on the Confirmation of Justice Sotomayor

08/06/09

Lambda Legal: Obama Administration Can Do More

06/17/09

LGBT Organizations Point Out that Lawsuits Could Set Back Progress on Marriage for Same-Sex Couples

05/27/09

Upstate New York School District to Allow Gay Straight Alliance to Form After Lambda Legal Filed Lawsuit

04/17/09

Lambda Legal Applauds Governor Paterson's Marriage Equality Bill

04/16/09

Lambda Legal Files Federal Antigay Bias Lawsuit Against Upstate New York School District on Behalf of Student and Her Brother

04/08/09

Lambda Legal Urges Federal Court to Reject Gay Defamation Claim

03/13/09

Following Attorney General Investigation, Arizona-based Antigay Adoption Service Stops Business in New York: Lambda Legal's Clients Vindicated

03/04/09

Rights Groups Release Updated Guide for New York Same-Sex Couples Married Out of State

01/26/09

First New York Appellate Court to Approve State Recognition of Out-of-State Marriages for Same-Sex Couples in Lambda Legal's Case

01/21/09

Lambda Legal Applauds New York Appellate Court Decision Affirming Out-Of-State Marriage Recognition

01/05/09

Lambda Legal Elects New Members to Board of Directors

10/31/08

Lambda Legal Defends Westchester County Executive Spano in Marriage Recognition Lawsuit

06/23/08

New York Appeals Court Vacates Lower Court Ruling That Failed to Respect Canadian Marriage of Same-Sex Couple Represented by Lambda Legal

03/28/08

Again, New York Court Says Recognition of Out-of-State Marriages of Same-Sex Couples Follows New York Law: Lambda Legal Applauds Ruling

03/06/08

Lambda Legal Reaches Settlement on Behalf of Hudson Valley LGBTQ Center in Lawsuit Seeking Property Tax Exemption

02/20/08

Lambda Legal Applauds the New York State Appellate Court's Decision to Recognize Out-of-State Marriages of Same-Sex Couples

02/05/08

Lambda Legal Seeks to Strike Down Decision Disrespecting Canadian Marriage of Same-Sex Couple

01/24/08

Lambda Legal to Provide Testimony at New York City Council Hearing on Military's 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' Policy

01/24/08

Lambda Legal Urges Ithaca City School District to Retract Its Stance on New York Human Rights Law

10/18/07

Lambda Legal Represents Not-for-Profit Hudson Valley LGBTQ Center in Fight Against City of Kingston's Discriminatory Tax

09/30/07

New York Court Says State Comptroller's Recognition of Out-of-State Marriages of Same-Sex Couples Follows New York Law: Lambda Legal Applauds Ruling

09/12/07

Lambda Legal Lauds Governor Spitzer's Bill Opening Marriage to Same-Sex Couples in New York

04/27/07

Lambda Legal Submits Open Letter to Congress Calling for Passage of ENDA

04/24/07

New York Court Upholds Westchester County Executive Order Respecting Out-of-State Marriages of Same-Sex Couples

03/12/07

Terrence Boyle Withdraws from Federal Appeals Court Nomination: Lambda Legal Celebrates

01/09/07

Lambda Legal and Sylvia Rivera Law Project Settle Lawsuit on Behalf of Transgender Youth Denied Appropriate Care in State Custody

12/20/06

Lambda Legal's HIV Project Director Responds to Revised Recommendations for HIV Testing Issued Today By The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

09/22/06

Lambda Legal Announces Hire of New Staff Attorney and HIV Project Director in National Headquarters

09/08/06

New York State's High Court Upholds Exclusion of Same-Sex Couples from Marriage

07/06/06

New York High Court Hears Oral Argument in Lambda Legal's Lawsuit Seeking Marriage for Same-Sex Couples

05/31/06

Religious and Civil Rights Groups Urge New York's High Court to Strike Down Laws Barring Same-Sex Couples from Marriage

04/24/06

National Coalition Announces New Initiative to Raise Profile of People of Color Who Support Marriage for Same-Sex Couples

02/13/06

New York Appellate Court Reverses Lower Court Decision That Said Barring Same-Sex Couples From Marriage Is Unconstitutional

12/08/05

Citing Dangers Posed By Antigay Sodomy Laws, Lambda Legal Voices Concern Over Supreme Court Nominee Harriet Miers' Answers to Gay Rights Survey

10/04/05

Lambda Legal Statement Praising Passage of Groundbreaking California Organ Transplant Law Protecting People with HIV

09/30/05

As Stakes Are Raised, Lambda Legal Renews Call for Thorough Hearings on the Nomination of John Roberts for Chief Justice: Petition Drive in Full Swing

09/06/05

Lambda Legal Defends Lower Court Ruling, Argues for Marriage Equality in New York State

08/08/05

"The LGBT and HIV communities have a huge stake in ensuring that [Justice Sandra Day O'Connor's] replacement is not an extremist ideologue..."

07/05/05

As Terrence Boyles Nomination To Federal Appeals Court Advances in U.S. Senate, Lambda Legal Raises Alarm Over His Extreme Judicial Views And Hostility to Legal Protection for Disabled People

06/16/05

"We cannot sit back and turn over the courts to extremists hostile to equality and civil rights."

06/09/05

'Protecting the filibuster comes at a high price for the LGBT community.'

05/24/05

Saying William Pryor Is the 'Most Demonstrably Antigay Judicial Nominee in Recent Memory,' Lambda Legal Opposes Nomination To Federal Appeals Court

04/26/05

New York High Court Sends Lambda Legal's Marriage Lawsuit to State Appeals Court; 'We're Ready to Make Our Case for Fairness,' Lambda Legal Says

03/31/05

Same-Sex Couples Must Be Allowed To Marry In New York, Court Rules; Lambda Legal Says Decision Is 'Historic, Well Reasoned and Fair'

02/04/05

Lambda Legal Argues for Workers' Compensation Benefits for American Airlines 587 Surviving Domestic Partner in NY Appeals Court Today

01/12/05

Jon W. Davidson, Long-time Senior Counsel for Lambda Legal in Western Region, Takes Helm As Organization's New Legal Director

12/13/04

New York Same-Sex Couples Have Equal Right to Marry Under State Constitution, Lambda Legal Says

10/22/04

Lambda Legal Launches First National Education Campaign Aimed at Making Schools Safer for LGBTQ Youth

09/28/04

New York Should Not Ask Courts To Put Politics Before Principles, Lambda Legal Says in Papers Filed Today in Its Case Seeking Marriage for Gay and Lesbian Couples

09/24/04

Lambda Legal Announces Protests at WNBA Games Against Major Sponsor Foot Locker for Firing a Gay Employee; New York Protest Set for Game Thursday Night

09/14/04

Lambda Legal Asks New York Court Today To Fast-Track Its Case Seeking Marriage Licenses for Gay and Lesbian Couples

07/29/04

Lambda Legal Says House Bill That Would Block Gay Americans Out of the Justice System Is 'Patently Unconstitutional'

07/21/04

Top Three Car Insurance Companies in New York Will Respect Gay Couples??? Marriages, Lambda Legal Confirms

07/06/04

Geico Car Insurance Inconsistently Recognizes Gay Couples Marriages; Lambda Legal Asks Insurer To Obey NY Law and Cover All Married Gay Couples Equally

06/14/04

Bush Statement as Marriages Begin in Massachusetts is a 'Dishonest and Irresponsible' Attempt to 'Circumvent Our System of Justice,' Lambda Legal Says

05/17/04

Several States Moving Closer To Marrying Gay Couples, Lambda Legal Says as Massachusetts Prepares To Issue Licenses Starting Monday

05/12/04

Alphonso David Joins Lambda Legals National Headquarters, Will Assist on Lambda Legals Lawsuit for Marriage Equality in New York

05/07/04

Antigay Groups Ask To Enter Lambda Legal Lawsuit that Seeks Marriage for Same-Sex Couples in New York State

04/20/04

Lambda Legal Files Historic Lawsuit Seeking Full Marriage for Gay Couples in New York

03/05/04

Lambda Legal Vows Legal Action if Needed To Ensure Compliance With NY Attorney General's Order that Gay Couples Married Elsewhere Are Legally Married in NY

03/03/04

Lambda Legal Targets 'Activist Judge' Distortion With Aggressive Multi-Faceted National Campaign

03/02/04

Lambda Legal Statement on Marriages of Same-Sex Couples in New Paltz, New York

02/27/04

Statement on NYC Council Condemning Proposed Federal Amendment to the U.S. Constitution Banning Same-Sex Couples from Equal Treatment

02/26/04

Lambda Legal Asks New York Appeals Court to Allow Gay Man To Continue Pursuing Wrongful Death Case as a Spouse and Uphold Historic Ruling for Same-Sex Couples

01/20/04

Lambda Legal Launches New Child Custody Resources for Married Parents Who Divorce When One Comes Out as Gay or Lesbian

01/12/04

Lambda Legal's World AIDS Day Report Card Shows Some Employers, Advocates, Health Agencies Meeting Needs of People with HIV, and Others Badly Lacking

12/01/03

Praising Massachusetts Court Ruling Allowing Same-Sex Couples To Marry, Lambda Legal Vows To Push Forward

11/18/03

Lambda Legal To Honor 'Marriage Protection Week' With a Range of Activities Featuring Families, Clergy

10/08/03

New Jersey State Court To Hear Oral Arguments Friday, June 27, in Lambda Legal's Case Seeking Full Marriage Rights for Same-Sex Couples

06/19/03

Newark Lesbian Couple and Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund Statements on Teenager Murdered Because She Was a Lesbian

05/13/03

Gay Man Can Pursue Wrongful Death Case as a Spouse, New York Court Rules; Lambda Legal Says Breakthrough Ruling Is Nations First

04/15/03

Federal Government Awards Survivor Benefits to Lesbian Whose Partner Was Killed in 9/11 Attack; Lambda Legal Says Recognition Is First of Its Kind

01/23/03

John Langan's Story

01/09/03

Gay Man Can Hold Hospital Accountable for Partners Death After Routine Surgery Following Manhattan Hit-and-Run, Lambda Legal Says

01/09/03

U.S. Supreme Court Will Hear Lambda Legal's Challenge To Texas 'Homosexual Conduct' Law

12/02/02

Lambda Legal Asks Miss America to Make World AIDS Day Statement Clarifying 'Abstinence-Only' Views, Requests Details on Recent Speeches

11/25/02

Refusals To Change Transgendered People's Birth Certificates Almost Always Conflict with State Laws, Lambda Legal Says

11/12/02

New Toolkit Tackles Homophobia in 'Abstinence-Only' Education, Equips Communities to Fight for Real Sex Ed

09/09/02

New NY State Law Giving Spousal Benefits To Gay Partners of 9/11 Victims Is A 'Significant Step Forward,' But Gay Families Still Unprotected in Tragedies

08/21/02

U.S. Supreme Court asked to review constitutionality of Texas "Homosexual Conduct" Law

07/16/02

Americans with Disabilities Act Takes Another Hit in the Supreme Court

06/10/02

Gay Partner of Man Who Died on 9/11 to Testify at City Council Hearing About Being Denied Spousal Benefits

05/28/02

In re Workers' Compensation Claim of Larry Courtney and In re Workers' Compensation Claim of William Valentine

04/22/02

Gay Partners of Men Who Died on 9/11 and in November JFK Crash to Hold News Conference Monday, Announcing Landmark Action Against Insurance Companies for Denying Them Spousal Benefits

04/19/02

Gay Partners of Men Who Died on 9/11 and in November JFK Crash to Hold News Conference Monday, Announcing Landmark Action Against Insurance Companies for Denying Them Spousal Benefits

04/19/02

Live at Pridefest! Kevin Cathcart Spotlights What the Courts Mean for LGBT Liberation

04/09/02

Lambda Legal Honors Mark Bingham, 'In the Life,' Anna Quindlen

03/05/02

Civil Rights Groups Demand City Revitalize Fight Against Discrimination

02/28/02

U.S. Supreme Court to Hear Argument in Another Test for ADA

02/27/02

Lambda Legal Welcomes Five New Members to Board of Directors

02/20/02

U.S. Supreme Court to Hear Argument in Another Test for ADA

02/13/02

Lambda Legal's Call to Action Helps Build 5th Annual Freedom to Marry Day

02/11/02

American Academy of Pediatrics Supports Protections for Lesbian and Gay Families

01/30/02

Judge Agrees Lambda Can Argue that Housing Law Harms Same-Sex Couples

01/24/02

Government Keeps Door Open to Support for Lesbian and Gay Survivors of 9/11 Victims

12/20/01

Press Conference to Announce Establishment of 'September 11 Gay & Lesbian Family Fund'

12/11/01

Lambda Argues New York Housing Law Harms Lesbian and Gay Couples

12/07/01

Red Cross Issues Guidelines on Relief Assistance to Lesbian and Gay Survivors of September 11

12/04/01

Civil Rights Groups Urge Fair Treatment for Surviving Lesbian and Gay Partners of September 11th Victims

11/26/01

U.S. Supreme Court Once Again Zeros In on ADA

11/01/01

Two Delaware Dads Now Both Legal Parents of Children They Have Been Raising

10/15/01

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Communities and Allies Honor Victims and Survivors of Terrorist Attacks

09/11/01

International Coalition Advocates for Full Recognition of Gay Victims

08/08/01

Historic Proposal for Gay Victims of the Nazis as Part of Swiss Bank Litigation Proposal

08/07/01

Public Resists Discrimination by Boy Scouts of America

07/30/01

Statement from Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund on Proposal for Anti-Marriage Amendment

07/12/01

Community Groups Demand Reinstatement of Bus Shelter Ad

06/28/01

Supreme Court Ruling Yields Unexpected Lesson for Boy Scouts of America

06/21/01

Saying NY Law Requires Respect for Gay Couples, Lambda Legal Argues To Keep Decision Allowing Gay Man To Pursue Wrongful Death Case as a Spouse

06/21/01

Netherlands Ends Discrimination in Civil Marriage: Gays to Wed

03/30/01

Evan Wolfson Departs Lambda After 12 Years On Staff

03/21/01

Texas Court Upholds Conviction of Two Men for Consensual Sex at Home

03/15/01

Texas Court Upholds Conviction of Two Men for Consensual Sex at Home

03/15/01

Puerto Rico Police Department Still Fights Consequences of Unconstitutional Rule

03/06/01

John Ashcroft is Not Qualified to Be Attorney General

01/12/01

Mother Can Take Police to Court Over Son's Suicide

11/07/00

VP Candidates Engage in Freedom-to-Marry Debate

10/06/00

Supreme Court to Hear Argument in Major Test for ADA

10/05/00

Beatrice Dohrn Departs After Nearly Eight Years Directing Lambda Civil Rights Strategy

09/15/00

Lambda Releases Internet Resource to End University Discrimination

07/18/00

Long-Time Litigator in Lesbian, Gay Civil Rights Leaves Lambda Legal Defense

06/22/00

Texas Court Overturns 'Homosexual Conduct' Law, Clears Men Arrested in Bedroom

06/08/00

National Conference to Look at Plight of Prisoners with HIV

06/08/00

Ruling on Washington Visitation Law Suggests Balanced Approach to Parental Rights

06/05/00

United Airlines Is Official Carrier For Lambda Legal Defense

05/01/00

Lambda Settles Case Against Broker That Turned Away Gay Renters

04/14/00

U.S. Supreme Court Urged to Bar Anti-Gay Discrimination by Boy Scouts of America

03/29/00

Lambda Sues Landlord, Broker For Refusing to Rent to Same-Sex Couples

02/16/00

Clinic Settles Anti-Gay Bias Complaint by Washington Heights Resident

02/09/00

Third Annual National Freedom to Marry Day in Cities Nationwide

02/08/00

Lambda Urges Stay of Execution for African-American Lesbian

01/10/00

Lambda Taps Children's Advocate Colleen Sullivan to Lead Foster Care Project

01/07/00

With New Year, Lambda Builds Momentum for Gay Civil Rights

12/28/99

State Appeals Court Upholds New York City Domestic Partner Law

11/05/99

Supreme Court Set to Decide What Constitutes 'Disability' Under ADA

06/09/99

Workers Do Not Forfeit ADA Protections by Seeking Disability Benefits

05/24/99

Groups Issue Standards for Custody Disputes in Same-Sex Relationships

05/03/99

U.S. Supreme Court Hears Three ADA Cases in Two Days, Testing Federal Civil Rights Protections for People with HIV

04/20/99

Lambda to Join Anti-Police Brutality March

04/15/99

New England Mutual Must Pay Disability Benefits to Policyholder with HIV

03/30/99

Advocates Condemn State, National Push for Names Reporting

03/17/99

NEWS CONFERENCE ON WEDNESDAY, MARCH 17: NY, National HIV Names Reporting Must Address Community Concerns

03/16/99

Lambda Urges U.S. Supreme Court to Uphold Protections for Disabled Workers

02/22/99

Major Civil Rights and Health Organizations Jointly Warn Against Requiring Names of People with HIV

02/21/99

Organizations Jointly Oppose Death Penalty

02/12/99

National Freedom to Marry Day Sparks Action Across the Country

02/08/99

Protections for Non-Traditional Families at Stake as the U.S. Supreme Court Considers a Washington Visitation Statute

01/07/99

Tragic Death of Gay Wyoming Student Begs for End to Hatemongering

10/12/98

Second Circuit Court of Appeals Upholds 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell'

09/23/98

Lambda Urges Religious Leaders to Support Marriage Equality for Same-Sex Couples

08/13/98

Americans With Disabilities Act Can Protect People with HIV

06/25/98

Lambda Helps Secure Benefits for HIV-Positive Policy Holders

04/13/98

Federal Appeals Court to Hear 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' Challenge on April 2

03/31/98

Lambda to U.S. Supreme Court: ADA Protects People with HIV

03/17/98

Non-Gay and Gay Groups Across Country Observe First National Freedom to Marry Day

02/06/98

National Freedom to Marry Day -- February 12

01/12/98

Civil Rights Stakes Will Be Highest Ever for Lesbians and Gay Men in 1998

12/31/97

Lambda to High Court: Federal Law Applies to Same-Sex Sexual Harassment

11/25/97

Statements made upon filing of petition for certiorari in Shahar v. Bowers to United States Supreme Court, October 31, 1997

10/31/97

Statements made upon filing of petition for certiorari in Shahar v. Bowers to United States Supreme Court, October 31, 1997

10/31/97

Statement from Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund on Sixth Circuit Court of Appeals Decision to Uphold Cincinnati's Issue 3

10/23/97

For First Time, NY Federal Judge Strikes Down Entire Law Barring Gays From Military Service

07/02/97

Supreme Court Vacates Cincinnati's Anti-Gay Amendment

06/17/96